tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post3444847527606962431..comments2011-11-06T20:59:39.025-08:00Comments on A lifetime ahead to remember her?: Girl again one year after!Mom2005http://www.blogger.com/profile/15145286653578959162noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-40088163781636793042011-01-02T01:57:01.180-08:002011-01-02T01:57:01.180-08:00Happy birthday to dear little Ines. I am lighting ...Happy birthday to dear little Ines. I am lighting a candle for her today. It is a beautiful day in Denmark. I wish she was here with you but I know she is in spirit. Sending you and your family lots of extra love today.<br />Stephanie<br /><br />PS I just read your birth story again and I am so sorry you never got to hold your beautiful daughter while she was alive. But I know you hold her in your thoughts every single day and I believe she can feel that and feel your intense love and pride.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-2673837011892311592010-12-28T06:22:49.645-08:002010-12-28T06:22:49.645-08:00Congratulations on another sweet baby girl!!! Wha...Congratulations on another sweet baby girl!!! What a blessing!Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-13507321274649654412010-12-27T03:20:55.599-08:002010-12-27T03:20:55.599-08:00Congratulations on your third daughter!
I can cer...Congratulations on your third daughter!<br /><br />I can certainly understand being excited about planning Ines's first birthday. Just because our daughters are dead doesn't mean we don't love them so much and want to celebrate the life that they DID lead, as short as it was. And even if, sadly, a part of that day means laying her ashes in their final resting spot.<br /><br />We overdid it a bit (emotionally) as we invited quite a lot of people together, and in retrospect I wished we had kept it private so we could also have the time to grieve, if we wanted. I think your combination - a family celebration plus a mass with extended family - may be a good idea. Whatever you do, I hope it feels just right. I will certainly be remembering Ines on January 2nd...a candle will be lit here in cold, snowy Denmark and a prayer will be sent to her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com