tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post6604710543700753122..comments2011-11-06T20:59:39.025-08:00Comments on A lifetime ahead to remember her?: 11 weeks and many memoriesMom2005http://www.blogger.com/profile/15145286653578959162noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-90911355491606537132010-10-03T11:46:08.102-07:002010-10-03T11:46:08.102-07:00Oh, I'm so sorry your doctor is a moron. Have ...Oh, I'm so sorry your doctor is a moron. Have you found out anything else about why Ines died? I know how difficult it is to not know the reason, but only to know there was a reason. If that makes sense. It is scary to think it could happen again. Faith is a hard way to get through pregnancy. But you CAN do it.<br /><br />And be gentle with yourself...of course you don't want to complain about anything to do with being pregnant, but being pregnant - especially after loss - is hard, and it is ok to talk about it if you need to. It is also natural to think about Ines and your fear and sadness, even as you are carrying a new life, a new hope. It took me until I was about halfway through my pregnancy with Liam (and only after we found out he was a boy) before I really starting "connecting" with that pregnancy/him. Before that, I mainly thought of Malou, even though I knew logically I wasn't pregnant with her.<br /><br />Sending you lots of love and prayers to Isabel and Ines's new little sibling on his/her way.<br />xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com