tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post8906187646208367079..comments2011-11-06T20:59:39.025-08:00Comments on A lifetime ahead to remember her?: "Yes she died, she didn't make it..."Mom2005http://www.blogger.com/profile/15145286653578959162noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-59063424499527482172011-02-03T12:33:05.262-08:002011-02-03T12:33:05.262-08:00I remember the tears and the shock of first findin...I remember the tears and the shock of first finding out. I am so sorry you never got to hold Ines while she was alive. :'-(Hannah Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03789383446266473340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-55261381804074874472010-03-21T15:45:15.542-07:002010-03-21T15:45:15.542-07:00I'm so so sorry to hear this. I can't ima...I'm so so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how hard this would be. I'd found out my daughter died several hours before I had to have a caesar - to be watching her taken away to NICU while you are being stitched up would be so difficult.<br /><br />I'm sorry you didn't get that time with her. Sending all our love and thoughts xxxh<br /><br />ps, I think you are right in your other post about beliefs - that surviving this kind of thing does depend a lot on your personal effort, on drawing on your strength, and knowing you can feel this great broken-heartedness fully and still survive.Hanenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02490161992949497684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-86106030491625140492010-03-07T09:52:16.528-08:002010-03-07T09:52:16.528-08:00PS That is a beautiful picture of Ines. What a swe...PS That is a beautiful picture of Ines. What a sweetheart.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6880654923570750516.post-76335482814716299982010-03-07T09:50:14.140-08:002010-03-07T09:50:14.140-08:00Oh, I am so very sorry. It breaks my heart to thin...Oh, I am so very sorry. It breaks my heart to think of you waiting alone to find out how Ines was, and that you had to see the expression on your husband's face and hear the words that no parent should ever hear.<br /><br />But even if Ines never saw you, she knew you better than anyone. I bet you gave her so much love and she was surrounded in it for 39 weeks. And that one hour she was with her daddy.<br /><br />I know another mother whose baby died after only minutes...she woke up from her emergency c-section to find out her daughter had died. She struggled with that almost more than anything...wishing the doctors could have kept her daughter alive long enough for her to wake up and see her alive (and both sad and angry that they couldn't). I never got that chance since Malou died before she was born, but I can imagine that it makes it even more heart-breaking.<br /><br />Sending you hugs and love to Ines.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com